I sought solace by saying a little prayer for my lost innocents.. came across this from a website, quote:
“Why, My child—do you ask ‘why’? Well, I will tell you why.
You see, the child lives. Instead of the wind he hears the sound of angels singing before My throne. Instead of the beauty that passes he sees everlasting Beauty—he sees My face. He was created and lived a short time so the image of his parents imprinted on his face may stand before Me as their personal intercessor. He knows secrets of heaven unknown to men on earth. He laughs with a special joy that only the innocent possess. My ways are not the ways of man. I create for My Kingdom and each creature fills a place in that Kingdom that could not be filled by another. He was created for My joy and his parents’ merits. He has never seen pain or sin. He has never felt hunger or pain. I breathed a soul into a seed, made it grow and called it forth.”
There are also a couple of things you can do to remember your lost innocent. You could create a keepsake box and place things which are relevant or significant to your child into it. Displays like plaques, little statues or stuff bears with stitching or engravings could be done. You could also get a bracelet, necklace or key-chain in remembrance of your child.
I just bought a necklace online with 2 attached birthstones... which is perfect. I had asked for the March (Aquamarine) and December (Zircon) birthstones, the months in which the 2 miscarried children were supposed to be born in. They will forever be in my heart.